troubles with RVM and OpenSSL

Trying to set up a new macbook for a colleague. Not going well.

First I install OpenSSL:

Heathers-MacBook-Pro:~ heather$ rvm pkg install opensslFetching openssl-1.0.1c.tar.gz to /Users/heather/.rvm/archives######################################################################## 100.0%Extracting openssl to /Users/heather/.rvm/src/openssl-1.0.1cConfiguring openssl in /Users/heather/.rvm/src/openssl-1.0.1c.Compiling openssl in /Users/heather/.rvm/src/openssl-1.0.1c.Installing openssl to /Users/heather/.rvm/usrPlease note that it's required to reinstall all rubies:    rvm reinstall all --forceUpdating openssl certificates

Then I try to install ruby with openssl...

Heathers-MacBook-Pro:website heather$ rvm install 1.9.3 --with-openssl-dir=$HOME/.rvm/usrFetching yaml-0.1.4.tar.gz to /Users/heather/.rvm/archivesExtracting yaml to /Users/heather/.rvm/src/yaml-0.1.4Configuring yaml in /Users/heather/.rvm/src/yaml-0.1.4.Compiling yaml in /Users/heather/.rvm/src/yaml-0.1.4.Installing yaml to /Users/heather/.rvm/usrInstalling Ruby from source to: /Users/heather/.rvm/rubies/ruby-1.9.3-p392, this may take a while depending on your cpu(s)...ruby-1.9.3-p392 - #downloading ruby-1.9.3-p392, this may take a while depending on your connection...ruby-1.9.3-p392 - #extracting ruby-1.9.3-p392 to /Users/heather/.rvm/src/ruby-1.9.3-p392ruby-1.9.3-p392 - #extracted to /Users/heather/.rvm/src/ruby-1.9.3-p392ruby-1.9.3-p392 - #configuringruby-1.9.3-p392 - #compilingruby-1.9.3-p392 - #installing Removing old Rubygems files...Installing rubygems-1.8.25 for ruby-1.9.3-p392 ...Installation of rubygems completed successfully.Saving wrappers to '/Users/heather/.rvm/bin'.ruby-1.9.3-p392 - #adjusting #shebangs for (gem irb erb ri rdoc testrb rake).ruby-1.9.3-p392 - #importing default gemsets, this may take time ...Install of ruby-1.9.3-p392 - #complete Heathers-MacBook-Pro:website heather$ bundle updateCould not load OpenSSL.You must recompile Ruby with OpenSSL support or change the sources in your Gemfile from 'https' to 'http'. Instructions forcompiling with OpenSSL using RVM are available at rvm.io/packages/openssl.

btw, the gem file says "source https://rubygems.org"

ideas?